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In Bed With The Right

Episode 34: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives

In Bed With The Right

Adrian Daub and Moira Donegan

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8662 Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2024

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Moira and Adrian grab their Stanley cup and identical hair extensions to follow guest Kate Kelly into the reality show phenomenon "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" -- an episode all about the gender politics of the LDS Church, mixed orientation marriages, and, for some reason, "soft swinging".

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0:00.0

Hello, I'm Adrienne Dog.

0:08.3

And I'm Weir Donagin.

0:09.7

And whether we like it or not, we're in bed with the right.

0:14.0

So, Adrian, today we are talking about one of the weirdest items of gendered cultural production to emerge in 2024, a little show

0:24.7

on Hulu that's become a breakout hit called The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Yep, and we watched

0:32.6

a lot of it yesterday. It is the kind of show that will make you feel actively stupider, but I feel a lot

0:40.8

smarter after talking to our guests today, Kate Kelly. Kate Kelly is kind of a feminist woman

0:48.2

about town. She's an activist. She's a human rights lawyer. She's worked at all kinds of progressive nonprofits and

0:55.8

political organizations. But her origin story is that Kay Kelly came to feminism as a Mormon, a young

1:04.7

Mormon wife, straight out of Utah, who attended Brigham Young, got married to a Mormon man at a, you know,

1:13.9

precocious age, the whole shebang. And early in her life, Kate founded an organization

1:20.1

within Mormonism called Ordain Women, which advocated, as the name suggests, for the ordination

1:26.1

of women to the Mormon priesthood.

1:29.1

And for that trespass, the Mormon church actually excommunicated Kate, which launched her

1:35.2

onto her adventurous life as a feminist in D.C. and a big advocate, among other things,

1:42.3

for the Equal Rights Amendment. So Kate is a really smart,

1:47.0

funny, perceptive interlocutor of Mormonism for a non-Mormon, you know, a sinner,

1:54.7

decadent, fallen secularist like us. Hey, speak for yourself. But she made me see this show in a new way, and I'm really glad we got to talk to her.

2:04.2

Absolutely.

2:04.8

So we say a little bit more about the show.

2:07.1

If you have not seen it, we do dive into it, like headfirst.

2:11.6

It is on Hulu.

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