Episode 334: unHidden: An Episode for Men and Those Confused By Them with Robert Kandell

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Andrea Owen

How To, Education, Self-improvement

4.7 • 517 Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2020

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Today I have an interesting episode for you. When Robert Kandell approached me to be on my podcast, I was like, “Wait, whaatttt, who is this guy?” I started looking into his work and he also sent me a copy of his book; I knew I had to have him on the show. He is known as “The Modern Mantor,” is an interpersonal communications and relationship expert, speaker, and podcaster. He is also the author of the book, unHidden: Book for Men and Those Confused By Them. Most of the listeners of this podcast are women...but obviously you have men in your lives - whether it be father, brothers, friends, or spouses. And sometimes it can be complicated. Robert and I discuss the different ways in which we can be better communicators with each other, how practicing telling the truth can build stronger relationships, and where and why men tend to hide from their own truths. In this episode you will hear: Where men tend to hide and why they hide, plus Robert shares some brain science and explains some of the reasons why men (and women) don’t do the work. (5:18) How Burning Man and an orgy led Robert to a new path in life and relationships. (10:32) The effects of withholding your truth from your intimate partners. (14:58) We are trained to be mediocre communicators, Robert shares one way men and women can have better communication. (19:31) The #MeToo movement was a huge wakeup call to society that the toxic habits of men and women supporting those men can no longer hold up and how the movement has affected men. (25:18) The imbalance of personal development between women and their male companions (whether it be partner, brother, etc). (29:21) http://yourkickasslife.com/334 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:30.1	Men, we can do better. It's a hard time to be a man. The 21st century is the hardest time to be
0:35.9	in the man in the history of men with Me Too and
0:38.2	the power of women, the changing of social structures and the schooling. And so there's really an
0:43.2	opportunity and men are heading in the wrong direction. They're going to porn and video games and
0:48.1	extending their adolescence and all these things. There's there's really an opportunity for men
0:52.1	to step up.
1:00.1	This is Your Kickass Life podcast, episode number 334 with guest Robert Candell.
1:09.7	This is the Your Kickass Life podcast with Andrea Owen, a no BS guide to self-help and badassery.
1:13.4	Because ladies, let's face it, life's too short for it to not kick ass. And here's your host, the girl who serves it up straight with a side
1:20.2	of crazy. Andrea Owen. Hey there, ask kickers. Welcome to another episode of the podcast. I am so glad that you are here.
1:29.8	Today, I have an interesting guest for you. Robert approached us to be on the podcast, and at first I was like,
1:38.7	what? I don't know what this means. Your book is called Unhidden, but the more I looked into it and was
1:46.2	reading excerpts from his book, I was like, oh my gosh, I have to have you on. So his book is called
1:51.9	Unhidden, book for men and those confused by them. And I know that the vast majority of you are women,
1:58.5	but also, you know, we all have men in our lives that we love.
2:02.7	So I figured that Robert would be a great guest over here. And I was not disappointed.
2:08.6	You are going to love this conversation that I had with him that I actually, sadly, had to
2:14.0	record twice. I think I might have mentioned on a previous episode, I had a run-in with
2:19.5	some recording software that we tried to switch to that ended up being a massive hashtag fail.
2:25.7	And the original episode that I had with him was lost. And so he was gracious enough to come back
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