Episode 328 - The Dr. Cloud Show Live - Resolving Guilt - 2-16-2022
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Greg Bowler
4.7 • 815 Ratings
🗓️ 16 March 2022
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
On this episode of The Dr. Cloud Show:
Cheri wants to know: Do narcissists know what they're doing or are they unaware of it? Is it automatic for them to be manipulative, like a defense mechanism? Is there a way to make them see it?
Question: What's the difference between shame and guilt?
Question: Disapproval triggers me and I'm hard on myself about it. I'm married with kids yet I still feel like a child. How do I get my needs met without feeling afraid and more insecure?
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, Dr. Henry Cloud here. |
| 0:09.5 | You're listening to a rebroadcast of the Dr. Cloud Show, which is my live radio program |
| 0:14.7 | that you can find on YouTube.com slash Dr. Henry Cloud or Facebook.com slash Dr henry cloud if you want to listen live or even call |
| 0:24.5 | in let's take a listen back is the dr cloud show and i am glad that you have joined me again |
| 0:31.8 | to go fight the war against dysfunction one dynamic at a time. |
| 0:37.5 | What does that mean? |
| 0:38.3 | Well, it means, you know what? |
| 0:39.6 | When we tweak our heads just a little bit, |
| 0:43.2 | then a lot of times we immediately get relief, |
| 0:48.1 | but also it tends to make us more immune |
| 0:53.9 | to the dysfunction around us. |
| 0:55.7 | For example, let's just say, you know, you're around some critical people. |
| 1:00.3 | Well, if you don't have critical voices that put you down inside your own head, |
| 1:03.9 | then they don't have a button to push. |
| 1:05.3 | And so then you can kind of like blow them off a little easier, stuff like that. |
| 1:09.2 | And we talk about all that here. |
| 1:12.1 | And so let's do it once again, 844-940-2774 is the number to get on the program. 844-9402774. So, |
| 1:23.7 | for the day. What's your first reaction or feeling when I say this word, guilt? |
| 1:39.6 | I don't think there's anybody within the sound of my voice that had a happy feeling when I said, |
| 1:47.0 | you know? |
| 1:48.0 | What if I said joy, happiness, excitement, passion, lust, energy, optimistic, confident. |
| 2:02.7 | Yeah, we kind of get amped, right? |
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