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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose mistake is being

used against her but before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon

General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health

practitioners. Yes we are not professionals, we are not

trained in this, so please take our advice as you see fit in your life. We are only here to

offer our humble musings Samuel humble musings so hopefully

had some understanding and maybe some laughs on the incredibly rewarding but

mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right, Samuel, what is today's letter?

All right, our letter comes from Chaos versus Peace, whose pronounce are She Her,

who is writing from the edge of a breakup.

Content warning for this letter, there are references to physical abuse.

Hi, Sierra, and Sam, I stumbled across your podcast over a year ago and you guys have been a beacon for me through some tough times along my dating journey

Sometimes I don't always listen to your advice even when I know that you're right but the advice that you have given that I have followed has never steered me wrong, which brings me to my little conundrum.

I am 29 years old and at the end of 2020 I moved to a big new city to go back to school and reconnect with family.

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