Today's episode of The Aggressive Life has adult themes and adult content. You could choose

not to listen to this with your kids. You could choose to listen to this with your kids personally.

If my kids were young, I would have them listen to this episode and all the language and all the

references. But that's me. I'm not you.

I choose to make the aggressive move, and I'm just aggressively letting you know that today we have some adult topics on the aggressive life.

Aggression is one of the last dirty words in our culture.

You can be crass, you can be rude, you can even be profane, but, ho-ho, aggressive, don't be aggressive, except it's wrong, dead wrong.

I promise you nothing of meaning and transcendence will come into your life passively.

It's time for you to get into the arena

to push back against a passive, mediocre existence. I'm Brian Tome. This is the aggressive life.

Welcome to the aggressive life.

You know, one of the things I see regularly is that we all want to be aggressive in an area of life,

not necessarily our area of life.

So there's people who are aggressive savers. There are people who are aggressive

spenders. There are people who are aggressive motorcyclists. There are people who are

aggressive skydivers, aggressive entrepreneurs, aggressive in any number of different ways.

And yet I beat very, very few people that are aggressive in every

department, every single area of my law. I want to be as aggressive in the thing that I lead

that employs hundreds of people as I am with rooting out the problems in my marriage.

I need to be just as aggressive in rooting out the problems of my marriage as I am in trying to make sure that I am healthy physically to be able to be capable to do the adventures that I want to do.

We can't pick and choose what areas we're going to be aggressive in.

We've got to recognize that if we're not consistently aggressive in every sector of our life,

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