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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 297: Quarterlife Crisis & Being the Family Therapist

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2022

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Hello, everyone! Thank you for your patience on this one. Had to take a couple extra days so that I didn't lose my mind with work. This episode features the following questions:

  • After college, I don't know what to do with my life and find myself depressed. How can I move forward?
  • My family expects me to be the peacekeeper and therapist. How can I set better boundaries?

As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode297

 


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0:00.0

I think that to have a very very clear sense of purpose or direction in your early 20s is actually not totally common

0:07.6

And in some ways it might even be a little bit developmentally inappropriate right you're an an adult, but in your early 20s,

0:14.9

your brain is actually barely starting

0:16.7

to finish developing.

0:18.0

Hey everybody, before we start the show,

0:19.8

I want to make a couple disclaimers.

0:21.9

This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general and some of those could be sensitive for you.

0:28.0

I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave and consuming difficult content, but also respect and recognize your limitations.

0:35.2

So please use your best judgment. I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an

0:40.0

episode entirely, but feel free to feel it out, check out the episode and just see what happens.

0:44.5

If you need to skip, that's okay, but, you know, feel free to give it a shot first.

0:48.0

I also need to say that while I am a psychologist, I'm not your psychologist and I'm not your therapist. This is not intended to be

0:54.7

direct medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help. So with

0:59.6

those said, let's go ahead and get into the show. All right.

1:18.7

Hello friends of all varieties.

1:20.7

This is the hardcore self-help podcast episode

1:22.9

297. I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych. I make

1:27.5

mental health content for real people just like you and today I have a

1:31.6

question and answer episode with two really good questions sent in by listeners like you.

1:44.8

If you would like to send in a question for the show, please shoot me an email to duff the psych at gmail.com or use the contact page on my website duff the psych dot com and as always if you want to see if I've covered a topic before go

1:49.4

ahead and go to the website and use the search bar you can search for any topic and you'll see you know the

1:54.9

podcast episodes blog posts anything else that I've written about that topic and if I've covered

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