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Gender Reveal

Episode 29: Vivek Shraya

Gender Reveal

Tuck Woodstock

Society & Culture, Documentary, Personal Journals

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 17 September 2018

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with musician, author, filmmaker, and visual artist Vivek Shraya (she/her). Topics include:

  • Viewing Hindu gods as queer role models
  • Writing pop music about racism, gender, and biphobia
  • Why we should reject "love is love" as a queer slogan
  • Chronic suicidality / how to live when the world wants you dead [CN: 42-49 min]
  • How do we keep going if we don't think we're going to win?

Learn more about our This Week in Gender topic here and here.

Buy I'm Afraid of Men here. Listen to Angry and Part-Time Woman on Spotify. More of Vivek's work can be found at vivekshraya.com.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, this is Molly just popping in before the show starts to give you many content warnings.

0:05.0

Normally we put the content warnings in the show notes, but there's many of them and I wanted to make sure you didn't miss them.

0:11.0

In this episode, we talk about assault, we talk about racism, homophobia,

0:16.4

transphobia, misogyny, starting around a minute 41 or 42 to minute like 48 or 49 we talk about

0:25.4

suicidality and depression a lot. This is I think my favorite episode of

0:31.7

gender field that I've ever made, mostly because Vivick is incredible.

0:36.8

And so typically I have a strict cap on how long I let these episodes go, and on this one I blew past it by like 10 minutes

0:45.4

because I just really wanted you to get to hear

0:47.3

the whole conversation.

0:48.9

And so it's a long one.

0:50.0

If you need to take a break and come back, that's fine.

0:52.3

If you need to skip a section, that's fine. If you need to take a break and come back, that's fine. If you need to skip a section, that's fine.

0:54.5

If you are struggling with suicidality,

0:56.8

I would urge you to call 1-800 suicide,

1:00.3

the Trans Lifeline, or the the Trevor Project or a friend and if you can't call them maybe text them if you can't text them

1:08.8

Just hold on. I'm so happy you're here. I you so much I hope you enjoy the episode Welcome to Gender Field, a podcast where we ask intrusive personal questions and hopefully get a little bit closer to understanding what the hell gender is.

1:38.0

I'm your host and resident gender detective Molly Woodstock.

1:42.8

Hello and welcome to the penultimate episode of Gender Reveal Season 2. This week I am finally sharing my interview with Vivik Straya, which I recorded months ago, but have been saving as a special treat to all of us for making it through this season. Vivik is an author, a musician, a filmmaker, a professor.

2:05.9

She has a new book that just came out.

2:07.7

She does so much incredible work and I'm really, really in awe of her.

2:11.3

I'm really excited to share our talk, but that's all coming up later.

2:14.8

First, let me tell you that I have been working on so many gender reveal projects, like really

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