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Coming Out Pod

Episode 281: Sara Mossman

Coming Out Pod

Coming Out Pod

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Comedy, Mental Health

4.9584 Ratings

🗓️ 10 January 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Writer and filmmaker Sara Mossman grew up in Baltimore in the midst of a family dynamic that consisted of "a lot of dysfunction, a lot of chaos, a lot of people in the mix" (Sara is one of SIX children!). All of this led to her becoming emancipated from her family just before she turned fourteen...riiiiiight on the heels of also figuring out that she was gay. Suffice to say that Sara did not have an easy adolescence, but the saving grace came when she was accepted into a predominantly-female, VERY queer arts school for her high school years! Sara shares how generational trauma has shaped her journey, but hasn't prevented her from having a great deal of empathy for her mother (whose own mother was a child bride from the Philippines). Also, the wild tale of how Sara was assisted in her hardest coming out by none other than Mister Rogers! Talk about "It's a beautiful day in the GAYborhood!!!" (Sorry; I had to.)

Check out Sara's website (saramossman.com) and YouTube channel (youtube.com/c/underaneonsky), and follow her on Twitter at @SMossman. You can also purchase her novel, "The Tree of Life," at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BGX5HGPL, and check out her BFF's charity that she mentioned at unmatchedathlete.org!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody. Welcome to Coming Out Pod.

0:09.7

Y'all, I'm very aware when I do these queer root shoutouts that I tend to more heavily favor the ladies because as a burgeoning, you know, baby lesbian, a lot of my queer roots were women.

0:26.1

But I'm trying to expand because we have a wide audience.

0:29.8

So today's queer root shout out.

0:31.9

In addition to being personal to me, I think anyone of any gender could potentially appreciate.

0:37.5

Shout out to you if your queer root is Will Wheaton as Wesley Crusher and Star Trek the next generation.

0:45.7

I, again, a lesbian, I had a poster of Will Wheaton on my bedroom wall when I was a kid.

0:52.5

I had a huge crush on Will Wheaton. He as a young man, now he has a beard. He's like a full-ass man. But at the time, he covers the range of, I think, twink. I think he looks like a baby dyke. I just think he's such a versatile looking man. And I had a huge crush on him as a child. So if you also did shout

1:13.1

out to you, thank you, Will Wheaton for helping me discover myself. Y'all, I am here today

1:20.1

with Sarah Mossman. Hi, Sarah. Welcome. Hi. Thank you for having me here today. Thank you so much

1:27.4

for coming on. As I set off, Mike,

1:28.9

I'm always really appreciative when folks come on the podcast when they barely know me. It's a big ask,

1:34.5

and it's just it's really wonderful that people are open enough to do that. And so Sarah and I met in a

1:41.0

COVID-conscious creatives mixer, which is basically, as you know, if you've been listening to the podcast for a while, I am still very COVID-conscious.

1:50.3

I do a ton of stuff over Zoom with other folks who are also still COVID-ing, as we say.

1:56.9

And so Sarah and I met in a special Zoom that was arranged for creatives within the COVID

2:03.9

conscious community. So it covered the wide range. It was poets, writers, filmmakers, actors,

2:10.8

voiceover folks, just anyone who sort of defines themselves as an artist and is still being

2:16.4

COVID conscious. Some folks in the community

2:19.6

created a space for us all to get together, talk about our projects, and that is where we met.

2:25.0

And I obviously sort of just put out the call to any queer folks in the group who wanted to

2:30.8

come on the podcast. And Sarah was kind enough to take the bait.

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