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Coming Out Pod

Episode 279: Listener Mailbag 2023 with special guest NICOLE!

Coming Out Pod

Coming Out Pod

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Comedy, Mental Health

4.9584 Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2023

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

Lauren and Nicole are reunited for the pod's *FIFTH* ANNUAL LISTENER MAILBAG!!! In this double-stuffed episode, we're taking on allllll of your burning questions with our usual #workwife candor! Hear our thoughts on if gaydar is real! Listen as we debate whether or not straight people should have to come out! Delight in our very different (BUT EQUALLY VALID) answers to "what's on your queer bucket list?" Nicole also gives her take on several poly-specific questions, including what she's learned from being the hinge partner in a V relationship! It's a warm, funny, and insightful way to say goodbye to 2023. Happy holidays, y'all, and thanks so much for listening this past year!

Follow Nicole at @nicolepacent on Instagram, and be sure to check out her upcoming episode of The Poly (Pod)Cast when it drops! You can find the info for Zig Zag Pride (and all of the L.A. LGBT Center's other community groups) at https://socialnet.lalgbtcenter.org/social-networking-groups/. Also mentioned as a resource in this episode was the Cuties mailing list, which you can subscribe to at hicuties.com. Last but not least, there's no time like the present to give the *podcast* a present by leaving a 5-star rating and/or a li'l review on either iTunes or Spotify!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Oh, hey y'all. Welcome to Coming Out Pod, the podcast formerly known as coming out with

0:12.4

Lauren and Nicole. And I mentioned this specifically because today Nicole is back. Yes, I am.

0:19.8

I'm so excited. Oh, my God, special guests. Nicole Paceit. This is really lovely.

0:26.8

We're reunited and it does indeed feel so good. It doesn't do you. We're doing our fifth

0:32.7

annual listener mailbag, which is bonkers. So exciting.

0:37.9

But as I was telling Nicole off, Mike, so now I do start every episode with a queer

0:44.2

root shoutout.

0:44.9

And the reason why I just started doing that is because I missed our little banter up

0:47.7

top.

0:48.1

I didn't want to just like dive in.

0:50.5

So I was like, I need like something to like run my mouth a little up top. And so I started

0:56.0

doing this queer root shoutout situation. And so today's will obviously be an honor of you.

1:00.9

Now, Nicole's actual queer root is Ricky, which if you're a long time listener, you know,

1:06.8

episode one. Nicole tells the story. We then eventually found Ricky, thanks to an amazing

1:12.9

listener. We brought Ricky on the pod and talked to her. So that is Nicole's factual queer

1:19.2

root. But queer root shout out, because I know this was also important to you. Shout out to you

1:25.9

if your queer root is the movie The Craft. This was, I know also

1:33.4

figures into your burgeoning queerness with your friend group in high school. Oh, in middle,

1:40.9

school. Oh, in middle school. Oh, my goodness. That's right. I forget how you were so advanced. I forget that. That's right. It was middle school. Oh, in middle school. Oh, my goodness. Sixth grade.

1:44.4

I forget how you were so advanced.

1:46.3

I forget that.

1:47.1

That's right.

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