We brought love to marriage, we brought sex to love, we brought marital happiness as connected to sexual satisfaction.

We've made all kinds of new connections. So I still want that, but I also want you to be my best friend.

And I want you to be my best friend. And I want you to be my confidant, the person I can tell everybody,

everything to.

And I want you to be my great lover,

and I want you to be my intellectual equal, and I want you to be my intellectual equal and I want you to be my

co-parent and as we go into millennial and further down I want you to be the person

that helps me become the best version of myself and therefore you're no longer just my partner you're my soulmate

and that soul mating is the pinnacle of expectations that we bring to modern love, which the young and analyst Robert

Johnson talks about really beautifully. We want ecstasy, transcendence, wholeness and meaning

from our partner stuff that we used to look for in the realm of the divine. Yo, what's good everybody, this is Southeast, and welcome back to another episode and this is another episode I am so

excited as you guys can see to bring you this brand new roommate. For those who watch the show you

know I always talk about my Mount Rushmore people. These are the individuals

who have impacted my life the most who whenever I listen to them talk.

Their words shape and transform my worldview.

And you know my dad is on there, Jordan B Peterson's on there, Gary Vese on there, and with our channel

as we do a lot of resources to help men, you would assume that my Mount Rushmore consistent. of A woman's face carved right in the middle of my Mount Rushmore,

and this woman is somebody who, the moment I heard her talk

with her lovely accent, by the way, the moment I heard her talk with her lovely accent by the way.

The moment I heard her talk, I was inspired.

She literally had a way of seeing and understanding

the world in a way that I cannot even imagine.

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