and maybe I would feel better about myself if I toughened up, started working harder,

demonstrated discipline, cultivated discipline quite frankly, and you know started doing my thing. And so my version of cleaning my room was I get

out of bed in 10 minutes or less no matter what and that one thing and unfortunately

when I was young I didn't have a Jordan Peterson but that one thing

completely changed the course of my life so I'm thinking my father-in-law doesn't believe in me

my now fiancee will get drug down if I don't figure this out and she's

literally betting on me and I need to take responsibility oh and by the way I

actually can get better at this.

And so you start putting all these pieces together, I start putting rules in my life, like getting out of bed in 10 minutes or less,

and things start to change.

And I become obsessed with this idea of skills stack. Yves, and welcome back to another episode.

I'm so glad that you guys are here today and

today I have an absolute treat for a guest guys. I've always been telling you life is a marathon is not a

sprint and sometimes the thing that you want is going to happen later on in life and this

guest I've been working on for such a long time and finally able to get this man on the show and you guys know how much of a big Jordan Peterson fan I am and in his book 12 Rules for Life

Rule number four is compare yourself to who you were yesterday not who someone else

is today and that rule couldn't be true for anybody.

Because if you are comparing your life

to this new roommate, I'm telling you,

you will be sad, you will feel so behind, but don't use his story as comparison to where you're not at

Because he is on a whole different stratosphere use his story to motivate you about the potential that you can unlock and the man that you can be.

So without further to do, please welcome to the show The one and only Tom Bailu.

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