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Pillow Talks

Episode 26: Are You Good In Bed?

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.82.6K Ratings

🗓️ 27 April 2015

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

We turned to our Instagram audience @vanessamarintherapy to ask them "what makes someone good in bed?" and they DELIVERED. They also opened up on telling us what makes someone bad in bed. Do you really know what actually makes sex good? Listen to find out some major themes we noticed. We'll unpack our findings and give you practical advice to sharpen your skills in the bedroom.   Links & Resources: Confidence in the Bedroom Masterclass PDF of our findings for this episode!   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Check out the Show Notes at: vmtherapy.com/episode26 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

It was our third or fourth time having sex and he was ignoring my request.

0:03.8

I moved my own hand there to stimulate.

0:06.7

He immediately responded, gross, and moved my own hand.

0:12.6

Wow.

0:13.2

He said I just needed to relax

0:15.2

and then I would be fully able to enjoy his work.

0:18.6

Hello and

0:25.0

the Pillow Talks podcast.

0:27.0

we're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin.

0:30.0

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:33.0

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:34.6

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

0:36.8

while giving you step-by-step techniques

0:38.8

for improving yours.

0:40.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips practical relationship advice

0:46.8

hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:53.1

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:57.6

Can you even fuck?

1:00.6

I really hope that nobody is listening to this episode with their kids around.

1:04.4

I think we've trained our audience to know that this is not a podcast to listen to with your kids around.

1:09.2

But I think that by now you should know that.

1:11.6

I think. I mean we are what this is our 26th episode if this was your first time

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