Welcome to the Bear Marriage podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from Bear Marriage.com,

where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your sex life, marriage, and your parenting. And that is what we're talking about. Today, I am joined

by my daughter, Rebecca Lindchenbach. Hello. And we, of course, have written a parenting book.

She deserves better, which we co-authored. Yes, we did. Don't forget about it.

Well, I know about she deserves better. I don't consider it like a

like a de-a-old, like a de-c, I don't know. It's like, it is a parenting book, I guess. Yes, it is.

It is. And two of the things that we are really passionate about are evidence-based. Yes. So we want to

look at what survey results say. We want to look at what studies say. We want to look at what peer-reviewed research says. And also, we're passionate about, like, connecting you to people who are doing good

work in those spaces. Yeah. There's a lot of, I will say, people ask us like, oh, you should talk

about this and this and this. And I'm like, there are people who talk about that, That are doing a great job and are putting as much work towards learning to be experts in that area as we are learning to be experts in the areas of evangelical sexuality.

So we have a guest today who we've had on twice before.

Wendy Snyder from Fresh Start Family Online.

And she's just she was really helpful for us personally, for you when,

when your kids were little.

Oh, yeah.

I, I've used a lot of Wendy's stuff with, with my kids.

I still do.

I mean, they're four, they're five and three.

So.

Yeah.

And, um, and we just think that she talks about, uh, firm and kind discipline so

well and how those things interact. And so we're going to be bringing her on in a moment. Before we do that, of course, we want to say thank you to our patron group because their money

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