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Coming Out Pod

Episode 258: Reverend Mark Montgomery

Coming Out Pod

Coming Out Pod

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Comedy, Mental Health

4.9584 Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2023

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

This is Nicole's penultimate episode of the podcast, so we knew our guest had to be someone extra-special! For over a decade, this incredible human being has been extremely close to Nicole and her family; so much so that he performed Nicole and Gustav's wedding in Scotland, and Nicole's sister's Memorial Service. Now, after *countless* mentions on the pod over the years, we finally sit down with the man, the myth, the legend, the REVEREND: Mark Montgomery! Mark discusses his small town South Carolina conservative Christian upbringing, and tells the "gayer than gay" story of how he came out to his mother at her hospital bedside (let's just say Steel Magnolias was involved). We talk faith vs. religion, Mark shares some "practical theology" you can use when confronted by intolerant Bible thumpers, and we take a deep dive into the misinterpretation of the oft-cited Sodom and Gomorrah story! This is an episode that you won't want to miss (and that you *will* want to send to your conservative family members)...

Mark gives an incorrect handle at the end of this ep, so make sure you *actually* follow him on Instagram at @markdmontgomery (and feel free to reach out)! Some of the people and resources he mentions during this episode include the United Church of Christ's website (ucc.org), Janie Spahr (https://lgbtqreligiousarchives.org/profiles/jane-adams-spahr), and More Light Presbyterians (mlp.org).

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey y'all.

0:07.7

Hello.

0:09.2

Welcome to Coming Out with Lauren and Nicole.

0:11.1

We are a weekly podcast where we have queer folks on from all walks of life.

0:14.8

They tell us the tales of how they came out to friends, family, and the world at large.

0:19.3

Because who doesn't love a coming out story?

0:22.9

Today is an extremely special pod.

0:28.4

Not only because it's my penultimate pod, I guess.

0:32.4

Oh, good. Good use of penultimate.

0:35.0

The only appropriate use of penultimate.

0:37.6

In fact.

0:39.8

But it is a pod that has been long coming.

0:46.2

As longtime listeners will know, I have brought up my friend Mark Montgomery, Reverend Mark Montgomery, many times. Mark is not only a dear friend, but

0:58.8

performed our wedding in Scotland and also performed my sister's memorial service. Mark is extremely

1:07.4

close to our family, obviously. And Mark is kind of, not only is Mark just dear to my heart for many reasons,

1:17.9

but Mark is also insofar as my own, like, theology and my own thoughts about going

1:24.7

into divinity and clergy and all those things that I've thought about so many times.

1:28.7

Mark is basically like a bit of my North Star and certainly someone I admire deeply and who also

1:37.2

makes me laugh like crazy.

1:38.5

So I am just so freaking happy to have Reverend Mark Montgomery with us today.

1:48.4

Hi, Mark.

1:50.0

How's it going?

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