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Episode 252: Carolyn Bergier, REDUX!

Coming Out Pod

Coming Out Pod

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Comedy, Mental Health

4.9584 Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2023

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

WE MADE IT TO PRIDE MONTH, Y'ALL! For our first episode of the *actual* happiest season (sorry, KStew), we're rejoined by comedian and podcaster extraordinaire, Carolyn Bergier, who was first on the pod all the way back in Pride of 2019! When we last spoke with Carolyn, she was two years into her second marriage, and described herself as a "serial monogamist." Well, suffice to say there's been a big change to the latter half of that sentence, because two years ago, Carolyn and her wife Cecilia opened up their marriage! Carolyn shares how feeling safer and more secure in a relationship than she ever had before had unexpected results, and discusses the challenges and joys of navigating "non-monogamy 101." She also describes the differences between dating women on her own versus dating them with her wife, and we have an incredibly candid conversation about alllllllll the pros and cons of having children. Happy listening, and HAPPY PRIDE!

Follow Carolyn on Instagram (and encourage her on TikTok!) at @tgicarolyn. And if you're in the New York area, lucky you: you can go see Carolyn's live queer dating show "Love's A Pitch" on June 20th at C'mon Everybody in Brooklyn!

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0:00.0

Hello, everybody.

0:07.3

Hey, y'all.

0:08.7

Welcome to Coming Out with Lauren and Nicole.

0:11.4

We are a weekly podcast where we have on queer folks from all walks of life.

0:15.5

They tell us the tales of how they came out to friends' family in the world at large.

0:19.7

Because who doesn't love a coming out story

0:21.2

and on occasion they come back after the first time they told us how they came out to friends

0:28.6

family and the world at large uh they come back on occasion because there have been updates

0:34.6

to their stories and we talk all the time on the pot about how people

0:38.6

change and evolve, et cetera, et cetera. And we want to back that up with evidence. So today is one

0:44.7

of our Redux episodes. We're so excited about this guest. Okay, Carolyn Bergeier, hello. First of all, you were a guest during, you were a special Pride Month guest for what was technically our very first Pride Month, because we launched during Pride Month.

1:07.0

But our first Pride Month where we had been established for a year. So you were one of our

1:12.8

special guests, episode 52, and you happened to be visiting L.A. And that was when we first had

1:18.2

you on. And that was, what is that? I'm not good at math. Five years ago, it's 2023. Yeah.

1:25.7

No, four, yes, because it was 2019. I told you i was bad at map so so it works out so perfectly that we're having you for pride month four years later um yeah caroline do you are happy pride happy pride everybody happy pride it is pride month um caroline would you like to introduce yourself in terms of all of the amazing things you do?

1:49.4

Because talking about evolution, even that in and of itself has changed.

1:53.6

You have become a superstar of the queer female community since we last talked.

1:59.1

Oh, wow.

2:00.1

Wow.

2:04.9

I think that's valid. Thank you. That's, that's very kind.

2:14.2

Yeah. I mean, I was, I was co-hosting a podcast called Diking Out, which past tense because I ended it this past fall. I also have a League of Their Own recap podcast where I recap episodes of the show

2:21.7

with the writers who wrote the episodes when possible.

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