Episode 251: Reflections on The Critic's Daughter with Priscilla Gilman
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Kate Anthony
4.4 • 574 Ratings
🗓️ 25 January 2024
⏱️ 67 minutes
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Summary
Join me this week for an enlightening discussion with Priscilla Gilman, acclaimed author of the upcoming paperback release of her critically acclaimed memoir, The Critic's Daughter. Priscilla, a former professor of English literature at Yale and Vassar, brings a wealth of insight as we explore the intricacies of co-parenting and divorce. Beyond her literary achievements, Priscilla is one of my oldest friends, which adds a personal touch to our conversation.
The Critic's Daughter becomes a guide on what not to do when faced with the complexities of divorce, providing a personal and poignant account of Priscilla's experiences. It's a rare opportunity to glimpse into my childhood, too, and witness the powerful narrative of Priscilla's parents' divorce – a tale of resilience, hardship, and the mistakes made during an era when people simply didn't know how to get divorced without deeply affecting their children.
Learn more about Priscilla Gilman:
Priscilla Gilman is a former professor of English literature at both Yale University and Vassar College and the author of The Anti-Romantic Child: A Story of Unexpected Joy (Harper), and The Critic's Daughter (Norton). The Anti-Romantic Child was excerpted in Newsweek magazine and featured on the cover of its international edition. It received starred reviews in Publishers Weekly and Booklist, was an NPR Morning Edition Must-Read, Slate's Book of the Week, one of the year's Best Books for the Leonard Lopate Show and The Chicago Tribune, and one of five nominees for a Books for a Better Life Award for Best First Book. Andrew Solomon called it "rapturously beautiful and deeply moving, profound, and marvelous." Gilman's second book, The Critic's Daughter, was published by W.W. Norton in February 2023 (paperback February 2024); a memoir about her relationship with her brilliant and complicated father, the late drama and literary critic Richard Gilman, it is set in the heyday of intellectual culture in New York of the 1970s and 80s. The Critic's Daughter received starred reviews in Kirkus and Booklist; Nick Hornby called it "Beautiful: honest, raw, careful, soulful, brave and incredibly readable." It was a Washington Post Best Book of 2023, a New York Times Book Critics' Favorite Book of 2023, one of the Los Angeles Times' book critic and Book Maven Bethanne Patrick's Top 10 Non-Fiction Books of 2023, one of the "18 Books Lilith magazine Loved in 2023," and 3rd on Bookreporter's Harvey Freedenburg's Favorite Books of 2023.
Since 2011, Gilman has taught literature and writing in countless settings. She was the parenting/education advice columnist for #1 New York Times bestselling author Susan Cain's Quiet Revolution website. She speaks frequently at schools, conferences, and organizations about parenting, education, autism, and the arts. In 2018, she became a certified Mindfulness and Loving-Kindness meditation teacher.
Resources & Links:
Kate's book "The D Word
Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective
Priscilla's website
The Critic's Daughter
Priscilla on Instagram
Priscilla on Facebook
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Divorce Survival Guide podcast, where we have open and honest conversations about co-parenting, separation, divorce, and the hardest question of all, should you stay or should you go. |
| 0:17.8 | I'm Kate Anthony, your divorce survival guide, and I'm here to help you navigate some of |
| 0:23.3 | the roughest waters you've ever swum in and answer some of your toughest questions. I've been to |
| 0:29.1 | hell and back, and now it's my mission in life to help you get to the other side of this process |
| 0:35.1 | with your sanity and your heart intact. |
| 0:45.4 | Hey, everyone, welcome back. So today's episode is something a little bit different, but I'll get to that in a second. |
| 0:55.8 | I'm actually really excited about it. |
| 0:58.0 | But I will get to it in a second because first, of course, I want to reiterate that |
| 1:03.2 | Phoenix Rising is beginning in just about a week and a half. |
| 1:10.6 | We start on February 6th. |
| 1:13.3 | And bottom line, if you are getting divorced, you need this program. |
| 1:20.9 | We are going to cover just about everything you need to know for how to get divorced, |
| 1:31.1 | particularly if it's high conflict, |
| 1:37.6 | if you've been an abusive marriage and you're trying to shift your way out of it. This program is going to be vital, vital in supporting you in getting to the other side. We're going to talk about how to set |
| 1:47.1 | boundaries with someone that you've never set them with before, how to keep communication strictly |
| 1:52.8 | about your kids, no matter how they're trying to communicate with you, how to document abusive |
| 1:58.1 | behaviors to better present your case in court, how to protect your kids |
| 2:01.5 | from an abusive co-parent, and really, mostly how to begin to feel empowered and free even during |
| 2:10.5 | this really turbulent time. Phoenix Rising is a group coaching program. So this is a collective of women going through this |
| 2:21.7 | together led by me. You get all of my expertise and hands-on connection to your process, |
| 2:30.7 | but you also get the benefit of the collective of women going through this at the same |
| 2:39.4 | time. And perhaps with, you know, different knowledge than you have about various things, right? |
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