Episode 244: Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Kate Anthony
4.4 • 574 Ratings
🗓️ 7 December 2023
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
This week's episode revisits a fan-favorite conversation about coercive control with the incredible Dr. Christine Coccihola. We explore how coercive control serves as the bedrock for a majority of domestic abuse cases, often manifesting in non-physical forms, and discuss the insidious nature of control, including its impact and how to get help if you are a victim.
Whether you're revisiting this powerful episode or hearing it for the first time, Dr. Cocchiola's insights are invaluable in navigating the complexities of relationships. Listen to hear (or re-hear) this conversation about coercive control.
Featured topics include:
- What is coercive control?
- The global impact of high-profile cases that revolve around coercive control
- DARVO: an acronym used to describe a common strategy of abusers
- How coercive controllers gain and retain control
- How to avoid coercive control and other abusive situations
Learn more about Dr. Christine Cocchiola:
Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher & Survivor. Coercive Control, the foundation of most domestic abuse, is often non-physical with offenders using "power over" to abuse their victims psychologically, legally, financially, and sexually and where children are involved, use of the children as pawns. She is a college professor teaching social work at CT Community College for the last 20 years and also an adjunct instructor at NYU. Her expertise is in the areas of intimate partner violence, trauma, and child abuse, developing and presenting workshops on these topics both nationally and internationally. Christine, a Board Member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, has supported policy codifying coercive control and has a small private practice, primarily serving victims and survivors of coercive control. She is the creator of the Protective Parenting Program, supporting protective mothers on their journey of healing their children.
Resources & Links:
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Divorce Survival Guide podcast, where we have open and honest conversations about co-parenting, separation, divorce, and the hardest question of all, should you stay or should you go. |
| 0:17.8 | I'm Kate Anthony, your divorce survival guide, and I'm here to help you navigate some of |
| 0:23.3 | the roughest waters you've ever swum in and answer some of your toughest questions. I've been to |
| 0:29.1 | hell and back, and now it's my mission in life to help you get to the other side of this process |
| 0:35.1 | with your sanity and your heart intact. |
| 0:41.1 | Hey, everyone. Welcome back. I am just beyond excited right now because the podcast, this one, |
| 0:53.5 | the Divorce Survival Guide podcast, just hit three million downloads. |
| 1:00.5 | And that's because of you. |
| 1:02.4 | Truly. |
| 1:03.6 | Obviously. |
| 1:05.5 | I didn't do it. |
| 1:07.2 | I am so grateful that you are here, that you listen to this podcast as much as you do. |
| 1:16.3 | And I'm really, really, really excited to create new content for you and to keep this going. |
| 1:24.5 | What it says to me that the podcast has three million downloads is, you know, |
| 1:30.4 | less about me than about you. People want change. People want answers that you are out there |
| 1:39.3 | seeking the answers to some of the really, really difficult questions that are floating around in your |
| 1:47.6 | brain and that you're coming to me. |
| 1:49.7 | I am honored. |
| 1:50.9 | I'm humbled beyond belief. |
| 1:53.6 | And I'm incredibly grateful. |
| 1:56.1 | And I really hope that this is just a sign of the seismic shift that we are creating, right? The revolution |
| 2:07.4 | of women not settling and of women seeking happiness and authenticity and truth in their relationships. And God, let's keep it going. |
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