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Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Episode #24: Willingness-Leave It All Out On The Field!

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9882 Ratings

🗓️ 24 November 2017

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Episode #24: Willingness-Leave It All Out On The Field!

OCD Anxiety Mindfulness Willingness Obsessive Compulsive Disorder I LOVE the term, "leave it all out on the field!" There is something totally radical and badass about the idea of "leaving it all out on the field!" It means we are committed to the hard work.  It demonstrates that we are ready to feel some discomfort.  "Leaving it out on the field" describes giving it your everything.  I LOVE it! How does this apply to Mindfulness? The degree that you "leave it out on the field" is a great way to describe Willingness.  Willingness is radically accepting and giving consent to our present experience. We can conceptualize Willingness as scale, similar to a continuum. 0/10 Willingness implies we have absolutely NO willingness to be uncomfortable (or have anxiety, intrusive thoughts, panic, have uncertainty).
  • We reject all feelings of discomfort
  • Fear makes our decisions (causing us to do more compulsions)
  • Disown any negative experience
10/10 Willingness is saying 100% "YES" to whatever experience of discomfort that arises
  • Radically accepting the feared outcome
  • Allowing yourself to have anxiety, fear and intrusive thoughts.
  • You LEFT IT ALL OUT ON THE FIELD!
Listen to hear ways to increase your WILLINGNESS, even if it is just a teeny, tiny bit. Enjoy!  And Happy Thanksgiving!

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0:00.0

Hello, my name is Kimberly Quinlan and this is your anxiety toolkit podcast.

0:19.3

Thank you so much for joining us again. I am so thrilled to hear

0:25.0

the feedback and thank you so much to those who left reviews. I am just so grateful.

0:33.5

And speaking of gratitude, we are going into the Thanksgiving weekend. And I've been doing a lot of

0:41.2

reflecting and I just want to say again, like how grateful I am for all you guys who give me

0:50.2

your feedback on what works for you, what doesn't work for you. I just love having a place to sit down

0:59.8

and share with you what I'm feeling and what's going on and hopefully giving you some tools on what is

1:06.5

helpful. And, you know, I hope it's helping you, but all I can say is just speaking out and talking

1:14.8

about mental health and talking about wellness it I think it just makes a safe place for me

1:21.2

because I think once we talk about it it takes away all of that judgment and it takes away all

1:26.9

the shame and it makes it just that

1:29.1

this is a place where we meet and we do it together.

1:32.9

So I'm so incredibly grateful and I love to hear any feedback that you have.

1:39.7

So this week, you may actually, before I move on, you may actually notice that I'm bringing out

1:46.8

podcasts more regularly because I'm really trying to sit down and be with my people,

1:55.1

you guys, more often. I just find it so beneficial for myself and I, it feels right. So I'm going to try to do that in

2:05.4

2018. I'm going to try my very best to be more consistent with a more weekly or by

2:11.5

monthly podcast than the monthly that we have been doing. So this week, my goal was to talk about willingness.

2:22.3

Now, I talk about willingness in many of the podcasts, but we are going into the holiday season,

2:29.1

and this is where all of our old stuff comes out. We regress. We, we struggle. I mean, when you go out

2:37.8

into your family home, it does bring up a lot. And sometimes there's nothing you can do

2:44.9

except just get through and be as compassionate and apply as much self-care as you can.

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