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Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Episode 233: Where’d You Hear That? Sorting Through Today’s Parenting Advice

Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Kenneth Wilgus, Cynthia Yanof

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Christianity, Parenting, How To

4.8801 Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

This week, Cynthia and Dr. Ken talk about the flood of parenting advice online—reels, headlines, podcasts, and posts that claim to have “the secret” to raising great kids. Cynthia admits she often hears something, remembers it later, and never actually checks where it came from. Dr. Ken steps in to help parents think wisely about sources, research, and trends—especially when videos or articles lean heavily on “brain science” that doesn’t actually match the data.


Together, they look at a recent viral headline about teens’ brains “no longer listening” to parents and use it as a reminder that not everything labeled as research is solid or helpful. They also discuss why over-medicalizing normal behavior can accidentally excuse responsibility instead of building it. Tune in for a good reminder that being picky about the source of our parenting information is important.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to Feeding the Mouth to Bight You, a weekly podcast guide on parenting teens and launching them into the world.

0:15.3

I'm Cynthia Yanov, and as always, I'm joined by psychologist and author Dr. Ken Wilgus.

0:21.0

Hey, Dr. Ken, how are we?

0:22.5

I'm good.

0:23.4

How are you, Cynthia?

0:24.7

It's going well over here.

0:25.8

I was just listening to my parenting podcast.

0:28.6

And it said, to control my anxiety, give your kids space and responsibility to be themselves.

0:36.0

Where'd you get that?

0:38.6

On the internet.

0:40.0

I thought it was apropos.

0:41.5

It's on the interwebs.

0:42.6

Yes, on the interwebs.

0:43.5

I ran across this right before we're talking.

0:45.9

Is it me or is there so much parenting advice everywhere on the internet?

0:51.0

And it feels like so much of it is like clickbaitish.

0:53.5

Like if you see these three

0:55.2

things in your kids be worried or if you want to have successful um you know make sure you do this

1:00.2

one thing if you want your kid to get in harvard or it's so much advice out there and you ever

1:05.0

seen the ones that finish with if you want the the whole download on this say the word

1:11.7

respond with the word calm and I'll send you my whole thing you know and it's

1:17.7

it's selling stuff and and I don't mind advice I mean I think it's good to seek advice

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