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Coming Out Pod

Episode 220: Jessi Hempel

Coming Out Pod

Coming Out Pod

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Comedy, Mental Health

4.9584 Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2022

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

At the age of nineteen, journalist and author Jessi Hempel came out. Tale as old as time, right? But far less traveled territory is what proceeded to happen over the next several years: four out of five members of Jessi's immediate family - including her father - *ALSO* came out! Two decades later, in the midst of lockdown-induced isolation, Jessi, her parents, and her two younger siblings somewhat unexpectedly began turning to each other for support, despite their tumultuous family history. Equally unexpectedly, Jessi found herself wanting to revisit the deeply-vulnerable five-year period during which every single one of them (including Jessi's mother, in a different way) came out of the closets they had been trapped in. The end result is the newly-released, Glennon Doyle-endorsed memoir "The Family Outing," and we were absolutely thrilled to get to talk to Jessi all about it! Plus, we get into identity politics, and the *particular* way we all judge our parents' relationships...

Look for "The Family Outing" wherever books are sold! You can also connect with Jessi on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessihempel/, and check out her award-winning podcast, Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, lovely listeners, tis I, Nicole. Before our episode starts today, I just wanted to let you know a little bit of what I am working on, what I have been working on for the past three and a half years outside of the pod and see if perhaps you might want to get on board to help, be that monetarily or just via other outlets

0:23.4

of giving them your time or energy. So I co-wrote a queer series, oh my goodness, with

0:30.1

writer Germana Bello of Red from Brazil. And this series draws on so many things that come up

0:37.4

on the pod.

0:38.7

It is multigenerational.

0:40.3

It is multicultural.

0:41.7

It is bilingual.

0:43.2

It deals with issues of going through a second adolescence, which we talk about a lot on the pod.

0:47.6

When you really come into your own, when you come out, or you start experiencing your own queerness for the first time in middle age.

0:54.7

It deals with friction between Gen X and Gen Z queer people and ways in which we can learn from each other.

1:03.7

It deals with what happens 10 years down the road after the happily ever after of queer marriage. And of course, it has some very, very, very, very, very, very

1:15.2

spicy sex scenes. And yes, I say that trying to obviously pique your interest, but I also say it because

1:23.1

they were written really, really carefully for the, through the queer lens, like really, really

1:30.0

specifically.

1:31.0

So I'm actually quite proud of the way that we are presenting queer sex in this.

1:35.6

Yay.

1:36.6

So in order to bring this vision to life, 10 episodes of this digital series, we are crowdfunding

1:43.9

currently. And that's a very vulnerable

1:46.1

and intense experience. And so if you feel inclined to give, this week in particular, we have

1:53.6

a matching challenge. So we're able to unlock a $3,000 donation if we get a hundred smaller donations, or really not smaller donations,

2:04.1

literally just 100 donations of any size.

2:07.2

So even if you can only give a dollar or $5 or whatever, that helps us towards this

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