Maybe it's just that you don't know how to use social courtesy.

Oh, that's all-fashioned.

Watch how Lizzie Post and Dan Post Senate act as host and hostess.

They know that courtesy means showing respect, thinking of the other person,

real friendliness.

Hello! And welcome to awesome etiquette, where we explore modern etiquette through the lens

of consideration, respect, and honesty. On today's show, we take your questions on names on holiday

cards, how to insist on cooking the entire

Thanksgiving meal, reaching out for recommendations after a few years time, and communicating

cultural differences in wedding plans.

Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute, and postscript segment on The Courteous

No.

For awesome etiquette sustaining members, your extra question of the week is about walking to a table and who should go first.

All that's coming up.

Awesome etiquette comes to you from the studios of Vermont Public Radio and is proud to be produced in Burlington, Vermont by the Emily Post Institute.

I'm Lizzie Post.

And I'm Dan Post-Sending.

Football.

I know. We used to talk about football all the time on this show.

And people told us to stop.

I think we appropriately reined it in ourselves.

I think so. I'm a happy football fan this week, and I apologize to any Rams listeners out

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