Episode 210: SLAY Your Negotiations with a Narcissist with Rebecca Zung
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Kate Anthony
4.4 ā¢ 574 Ratings
šļø 30 March 2023
ā±ļø 45 minutes
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Summary
Rebecca Zung returns to the show to share her expertise on narcissism and negotiation. Rebecca is a Narcissism Negotiation Expert, founder of the SLAY negotiation method, popular YouTuber, and one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation.
In this episode, Rebecca sheds light on what it's like to have a partner who is a narcissist and what happens when you want to get out of the relationship. She also shares valuable advice on dealing with a narcissistic ex who launches a smear campaign about you, describes her SLAY negotiation method, and debunks some myths. This episode contains insightful advice and value for anyone looking to break free from a narcissistic partner or ex-partner.
Featured topics include:
- What it's like to have a partner who is a narcissist, and what happens when you want to get out of the relationship (3:36)
- When your narcissist ex launches a smear campaign about you: never defend, explain, justify, or overshare (11:09)
- Rebecca busts some myths about narcissists, including "narcissists just want to win." (24:40)
- How to slay your negotiations with a narcissist (27:43)
- Certain things are negotiable, and certain things are not: what isĀ notĀ negotiable is your self-respect and your value as a human (38:21)
Learn more about Rebecca Zung:
Rebecca Zung is a Narcissism Negotiation Expert, founder of the SLAY negotiation method, popular YouTuber (more than 20 MILLION VIEWS in less than 2 years), and one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a "Best Lawyer in America", as "Legal Elite" by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell. She is the author of TWO bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword by Robert Shapiro) and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor. Her perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, as she has been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York, and CBS Los Angeles among others. Now, she is continuing to serve through her very popular YouTube channel, media appearances, podcast, articles, and on-demand programs such as S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiationā¢ with a Narcissist, SLAY the Narcissist in Family Court, and Breaking Freeā¢ Divorce Masterclasses.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Divorce Survival Guide podcast, where we have open and honest conversations about co-parenting, separation, divorce, and the hardest question of all, should you stay or should you go. |
| 0:17.8 | I'm Kate Anthony, your divorce survival guide, and I'm here to help you navigate some of |
| 0:23.3 | the roughest waters you've ever swum in and answer some of your toughest questions. I've been to |
| 0:29.1 | hell and back, and now it's my mission in life to help you get to the other side of this process |
| 0:35.1 | with your sanity and your heart intact. |
| 0:45.1 | Hey everyone, welcome back. So I have with me today my friend and colleague Rebecca Zung. |
| 0:56.8 | You probably know Rebecca as the founder of Slay Your Negotiations with a narcissist. |
| 1:04.4 | She is a narcissism negotiation expert and founder of the Slay Negotiation Method. |
| 1:14.6 | She has a YouTube channel with more than, |
| 1:20.5 | I think, she said, 35 million views in less than two in two and a half years. Crazy. |
| 1:25.5 | She's one of the top one percent of attorneys in the nation having been recognized by U.S. News and World Report as a best lawyer in America, |
| 1:28.7 | as legal elite by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as A.V. preeminent |
| 1:36.2 | rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubble. |
| 1:42.6 | She is really, I love Rebecca's, the way that she sort of packages things and makes them so |
| 1:52.5 | interesting and digestible in terms of negotiating with a narcissist. |
| 1:58.5 | Before I bring you over to my interview with Rebecca, I just wanted to say that |
| 2:03.7 | this month's Q&A was awesome. You guys were incredible. Your questions were incredible. |
| 2:10.6 | We will be having another call. It's the second Tuesday of every month. So the next one is April 11th at 9.30 a.m. |
| 2:23.8 | Pacific time, 1230 Eastern. And we'll put the link in the show notes for you to register. |
| 2:31.5 | And then you'll get an opportunity to submit questions in advance. |
| 2:37.0 | Even if you don't have a question, I think people are really getting a lot out of just sitting on the call and listening. |
| 2:42.1 | But if you have questions for me, that is a great, great place for you to ask them. |
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