There's a French concept which yes the French unfortunately fascist but they do have a helpful concept which I won't say in French but maybe we can get our good friend michael judge to say it.

But it means you must give time to time and I really like this concept which is basically says like you need to like slow down.

Let's shit unfold pause you know listen observe think give people time to talk like chill the fuck out be nice stop snitching don't gaslight don't get keep don't fucking girl bus.