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Gender Reveal

Episode 199: Bobuq Sayed

Gender Reveal

Tuck Woodstock

Society & Culture, Documentary, Personal Journals

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2026

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Tuck chats with author and organizer Bobuq Sayed (they/them). Topics include:

  • How Bobuq's novel No God But Us addresses shortcomings in other immigrant lit
  • Writing representation for white trans guys with a savior complex who are bad at poly :)
  • How living in Turkey changed Bobuq's relationship to the pride flag 
  • How Writers Against the War on Gaza combats the media ecosystem's rightward drift
  • Plus: Mx. Potato Head, mommy issues, and Jenna Bush Hager?

This Week in Gender: Nicole Kelly highlights Colectivo Mariposa, one of the 2025 Gender Reveal grant recipients. 

Bobuq's book No God But Us is now available for preorder. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Gender Appeal, a podcast where we hopefully get a little bit closer to understanding what the hell gender is.

0:21.4

I'm your host and resident gender detective, Tuck Weststock.

0:33.4

Hey, everyone.

0:34.6

Hope you've all been hanging in there.

0:36.0

Today on the show, I'm excited to share my conversation with Bobek Said.

0:39.4

Boebuck is the author of No God But Us, a new novel about two Afghan queers in Istanbul, one of whom has come to Istanbul from the U.S., the other of whom was previously living as a refugee in Tehran.

0:49.9

As you'll hear in the interview, this book has a lot to say about borders and immigration and

0:54.3

protest and global politics and queer community, and I'm excited for you to read it when it comes

0:58.5

out later this month. In this week's episode, Bobik and I talk about queer political organizing

1:03.8

in different parts of the world, because by the way, Bobak has lived in Australia, Miami, New

1:08.1

York, Berlin, Turkey, and more. We also talk about shortcomings and

1:12.3

immigrant literature, organizing with writers against the war on Gaza, doing representation for

1:17.1

white trans guys with a savior complex who are bad at Polly. I know in my life, there are

1:22.5

many people who have been terrorized by, you know, a white trans guy. And writing a book to heal your mommy issues.

1:29.6

I could never get my mother into a therapy session, but instead I just wrote 280-page

1:36.7

novel.

1:37.5

But before we get to all that, I just wanted to let you know we've got an incredible

1:40.7

gender-conceal episode coming out later this mum.

1:43.2

It features three beloved friends

1:44.8

of the gender reveal, conceal, ordeal universe. It's a format we've never tried before on the show.

1:49.8

I really think you'll love it. Plus, when you become a patron, it helps us keep making the show,

1:54.1

and we really could use that help right now. So if you have $5 and you'd like to trade that $5 for

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