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Episode 189: How We Navigate New Friendships and Friendship Fallouts

AsianBossGirl

Melody, Helen, and Janet

Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Careers, Business

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

We discuss romantic relationships often on our podcast, but today, we’re putting the spotlight on friendships. Life is best lived with friends, those who become your chosen family, through all the ups and downs. But as we journey through different life stages, some friendships become passive, or fall apart altogether. What are the qualities we value in a close friend nowadays? How are those qualities similar or different to those we seek in a romantic partner? And how do we recover from the heartbreak of a lost friendship? Tag some of your lifelong friends and share one of your favorite memories together in the comments! __________________________________________ Hosts: Melody Cheng, Janet Wang, Helen Wu Contributing Editor: Haemee Kang Editor: Michelle Hsieh __________________________________________ P A R T N E R S • Vaccines: Find vaccines and boosters near you at vaccines.gov __________________________________________ C O N N E C T W I T H U S • Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook • Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here • Shoutouts: Give a shoutout on the podcast here • Email: [email protected] __________________________________________ S U P P O R T U S • Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com • Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support • More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to ABG, Asian Boss Girl, a podcast for the modern-day Asian-American woman.

0:05.1

I'm Janet, I'm Helen, and I'm Mel!

0:19.4

Friendships are one of the great joys in life, and the greatest pals can become family.

0:24.5

We don't get to choose the families we're born into,

0:27.1

but we do get to choose our friends and who we hold dear throughout life.

0:31.5

As we grow older, it's beautiful, and sometimes sad, to find out which friendships grew even

0:37.6

stronger and which ones fell apart or went dormant. Before we started Asian Boss Girl,

0:42.9

five years ago, we'd known each other as friends for about seven years.

0:47.2

Lucky for us, working together has strengthened our relationships with one another.

0:50.9

What's helped has been our dedication to communication and building a strong

0:54.6

foundational friendship. We received many messages from listeners who want to hear more

0:58.8

on the topic of friendship, for making new friends, to maintaining existing ones, and dealing

1:03.2

with follow-ups, what are our thoughts and experiences on this episode?

1:06.9

According to psychology today, there are actually seven types of friendships.

1:11.8

One are lifelong friends, two best friends, three close friends,

1:19.2

four social group friends, or friends you socialize with, but with whom you are not

1:23.6

particularly close, activity friends, friends with whom you engage in specific activities,

1:29.1

such as gym buddies, or maybe your members have the same book club or dinner club, church circles,

1:33.8

so on. The sixth type of friendship are friends of convenience, or the people whom you might share

1:40.0

carpooling duties, or youth sports teams for parents, maybe neighborhood groups, and so on.

1:46.0

And the seventh type of friendship is what is called an acquaintance friend, or people at work.

1:51.6

People you see every day when you're walking your dog. Folks, you know to speak to, but not

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