Hi and welcome back to another episode of the Year of Palaugamy podcast.

This is your host, Lindsay.

And today is a really fun day because I'm talking with people that I admire and I think

are really a great representation of the subject we're going to talk about.

But of course, I don't know them very well, just what I've seen and interacted with.

I've been really impressed with how the Winder family, who I'm going to be interviewing today,

have practiced the principle of plural marriage.

So I first encountered Colton when they're,

Colton, when did I first, how did we meet? Was it just online? Was it through the podcast?

I think it was online. Yeah. I think when you were, did I know you when you guys were

all married or was it, were you just married to Tamp? It might have been right after we just

had married Sophie, maybe just a few months before even.

Well, I'm just going to, we're going to get into your story and I want you to introduce everybody, but I became kind of fascinated with you because one of the, one of my favorite things about being your Facebook friend is that you farm down in southern

Utah and you take literally the most beautiful photos your photos of farming they're just I'm

writing the biography of Juanita Brooks right now you know she lived in Hurricane for a time and

St. George and it's just it's lovely And you guys seem to have made this life work.

But another fascination of mine is I think you guys are all young and beautiful and you don't

fit the stereotype of the women coerced or kidnapped into polygamy either. So I want to talk

about all that. So why don't you guys start?

I don't know who wants to start introducing all of you. Maybe we go just sort of around the circle.

Tammy, can we start with you? Yeah, I'm Tammy Wender and Colton's first wife. And we've been married

for 10 years now. And in year eight of our marriage we decided that we were going to try and give polygamy a shot and we

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