Episode 182: “Help! I’m Not Into My Partner’s Fantasy!”

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2024

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you have a fantasy that your partner is just not into? When your “yum” is their “yuck” if you will. We asked our IG community for stories about times when their partner wanted to try something they weren’t into, or vice versa. Now, we’re sharing our best advice on how to handle the differences. Links & Resources: Sign up for our email list: vmtherapy.com/subscribe Thanks Cozy Earth. Go to cozyearth.com/pillowtalks and use code PILLOWTALKS for an exclusive discount for up to 40% off. Thanks StoryWorth. Get $10 off your first purchase at StoryWorth.com/pillow Thanks Jack Black. Go to GetJackBlack.com/PILLOW and use code PILLOW for 10% off your order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	All right, I have a comparison that we will probably get less backlash.
0:03.1	Okay. Less backlash from...
0:05.0	Like you comparing having kids to getting pegged?
0:07.0	I am. For some people, getting pegged is a really emotional, personal, important experience.
0:19.0	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:24.5	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:25.8	And Xander Marin.
0:27.1	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:30.1	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:31.6	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:37.4	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,
0:42.3	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:50.3	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:00.7	What happens when you have a fantasy that your partner is just not into?
1:04.6	When your yum is their yuck.
1:06.3	Or their yuck is your yum.
1:11.3	For today's episode, we turned to our Instagram community and we asked for stories.
1:17.3	Like, do you have any secret fantasies that you either think your partner wouldn't be into?
1:19.1	Maybe you're too afraid to tell them. Or maybe you have shared with your partner and got a pretty bad reaction.
1:24.2	And we even have some stories of people who kind of tried the fantasy out a little bit
1:29.2	to some not so great results. So in today's episode, we are going to be sharing with you some
1:35.5	pretty fascinating stories, honestly. We've got stuff about being dominated, pegging, licking
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