Mommy and daddy love each other very much but mommy also has the hots for her co-worker.

Like, well, not like that.

Well, the reason I'm asking you is because I just had a flashback. Hello and welcome to the pillow talks

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Have you ever been in a committed monogamous relationship and found yourself being attracted to someone else?

Uh-oh. Or is it? Well, first of all, you're definitely not alone. We asked our

community on Instagram if they had ever been attracted to someone else, and here's

what we found. 21% said yes in a major way. 37% said a little crush.

Another 37% said only noticing physical attractiveness so you're just like

appreciating that person but it's not that like ooh I want to be with them or

like I'm intrigued by them oh intrigued. Oh, that too.

Or that, but I mean, that's maybe in a major way.

And 4%, only 4% said no attraction ever.

And you know what?

I think they're lying.

I think they're lying too.

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