Our approach to vulnerability is we see vulnerability as a superpower.

I would go so far as to say if you don't have vulnerability, you don't have a relationship. Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your host, Vanessa.

And Zander Marin.

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

And I'm just a regular dude.

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Let's talk about vulnerability.

Yes, let's definitely talk about vulnerability.

I feel vulnerable when I talk right now because I'm recovering from this mouth surgery and still getting used

to having this device implanted inside of my mouth. You're sounding way better.

I am I? Yeah, way better. That's great. That's really great. Well, I have my

invisible liner liners out. I sound a lot worse with them in, but I've been told I

I sound a lot better with them in even. Yeah, no, you're totally, your

tongue is relearning how to be in your mouth.

It is it is it's still getting caught up on a couple of words kind of like

our words and like transitions between words but in general general, I'm doing pretty well,

I'm very happy about that.

But it does feel vulnerable.

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