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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 164: Boundaries vs Manipulation, Moving with Mental Illness, Helping Family Understand

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 27 June 2019

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Hey, all! On the last episode, I had my wife on to answer your relationship communications. We got SO many awesome questions that I wanted to tackle some more on the podcast today. This is a solo Q&A episode and I take questions directly from the private Hardcore Self Help Facebook group. Here are the questions I address:

  • What can I do about my family that doesn't understand my anxiety?
  • How can I tell the difference between reinforcing boundaries and being manipulative in my relationship?
  • I'm about to move and I'm freaking out. What can I do?

Full show notes are available at http://duffthepsych.com/episode164 and if you'd like to send in a question, shoot me an email at duffthepsych@gmail.com

Transcript

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Helping you know them understand in that specific example. This is what my anxiety was sort of causing me to do

0:07.0

That can help them ground you know their understanding of it that can help them say oh I thought you were just had other, you know, I thought you just had better things to do, or I thought you were

0:17.3

uninterested in what we were doing. Something like that, maybe they defaulted to this other explanation, when in reality it was this internal

0:24.4

experience that you had that made you feel like you needed to escape from the

0:28.0

situation. Hey everybody, before we start the show I want to make a couple

0:32.0

disclaimers.

0:33.2

This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general

0:37.3

and some of those could be sensitive for you.

0:39.7

I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave and consuming difficult content, but also respect and recognize

0:45.5

your limitations.

0:47.0

So please use your best judgment.

0:48.6

I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely, feel free to feel it out check out the

0:54.4

episode and just see what happens if you need to skip that's okay but you know feel free to give it a

0:58.4

shot first I also need to say that while I am a psychologist I'm not your psychologist and I'm not your therapist. This is not intended to be

1:06.0

direct medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help.

1:10.5

So with those said let's go ahead and get into the show. All right, hello friends Friends of All Varieties.

1:32.5

This is the Hardcore Health Podcast episode 164.

1:35.8

I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych.

1:38.5

I make mental health content for real people just like you.

1:41.7

And today I have a question and answer episode that has a little

1:44.8

twist to it so last week on the show I had my wife Chawell on and we took questions

1:49.2

from you guys about mainly communication and we solicited questions on Facebook.

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