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So they ask people who've gone through divorces, what do you regret?

And the top things that keep coming up, and I know everybody's story is different, but the top things that keep coming up

are really interesting. And one of them was, they said, I wish I would have been more demonstrative.

I should have said, I love you more, and held hands more, and done that sort of stuff.

And again, I know everybody's story is different if you've been through divorce, and it was difficult.

But I do think this is instructive for all of us in all of our relationships, just that.

You get complacent, like, this person knows I love them, I don't have to do that.

Yeah, I guess so. From the start, we just don't think that's on you.

To be that person, to keep reminding this other person how much they matter.

And again, I just mentioned it not because I'm a relationship expert by any stretch, but it's a good thing to remember.

So let's say you're looking down at your dash, and there's a warning light that comes on.

Do you instantly just go, I'm driving straight to the mechanic.

No, no. But then a second one comes on.

There you go. Yeah, different one. Yeah.

I think so. I think the second one.

I'm still hanging in with you. You're hanging in with Telly, and gonna keep driving, okay?

Kind of depends on what they are, but I don't know what some of them are.

I know it's some bad.

If a big skull and crossbone pops up, you're like, okay, I better get this on over to the mechanic.

I'm still laughing about it because there's the one that it looks like it's the tire pressure thing.

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