It's really hard for a lot of people to get sometimes what they've been looking for.

And one of those things that so many people look for is adoration.

I want people to adore me, I want people to think I'm incredible and I'm awesome.

And you can kind of tell sometimes that that's an issue for somebody if they won't make

themselves available to you ever and you look up to them because that's one way to keep

the adoration going.

If you actually get to know somebody, eventually it's going to calm down.

Yeah, you're going to find something that's right and you'll be peers eventually.

You know, go camp on somebody for 50 years and still be like, oh, you're just not going

to happen.

You're going to see them in all their humanness.

But I like what Rich Mullin said because it's so true and he's a, he's a favorite artist

of mine.

But he said adoration is probably the most addictive thing on the planet.

And I would just caution you if you're somebody who looks up to our artists or looks up to anybody

as a believer.

Like I think it's, I think it's only fine to thank God for things you see in people.

But do you think him?

It's not the person because their, their adoration doesn't help them.

Someone belongs with one person only.

Here's a really good idea that can make life better.

Question your fears seriously.

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