Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast, I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from Bear Marriage.com where we

like to talk about everything healthy, evidence-based, and biblical for your

marriage and your sex life and it is the end of September which means it is the end of our marriage

misdiagnosis month we have been talking on the blog and a little on the

podcast too about some of the ways that Christian marriage advice can sometimes misdiagnose

what the real problem is and then in so doing they give the wrong solution.

Today on the podcast we're going to look at sexual misdiagnosis and I've had this in my mind. I wanted to do this for a while.

I have been wondering what is it that people are actually hearing in their churches

about sex not just what are we reading in books because we've analyzed all the

books right you know that just read

the great sex rescue but what are people actually hearing in church from

their pastors and I get sent stuff all the time by people here's my has here's my pastor's sermon from last week he

talked about sex it was terrible and you know it's a pastor of like a

hundred and church of 150 and I just I don't want to beat up on that pastor I don't want to

analyze that sermon it just doesn't seem fair somehow but I did want to tackle

this and I was trying to figure out what to do. Well, I was sent an Instagram live by a mega church pastor in Texas

where he and his wife sat down and talked about sex

and I thought, you know, this is a really good one to analyze because first of all he's a

mega church pastor and so he does have a lot of people in his congregation he's

someone who's active on social media so he's he's already putting himself out there

this isn't me just spying on your church this is someone who's put it up on

Instagram and is promoting it but the other reason is someone that we are kind of

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