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Pillow Talks

Episode 160: These 4 Communication Mistakes Cause Breakups

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 June 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Are these four communication mistakes ruining your relationship? In today’s episode we’re revealing the Four Horsemen. Researcher John Gottman discovered that these specific communication pitfalls could predict divorce with over 90% accuracy! We’re breaking down what they are, how to know if you’re doing them, and what to do to have better communication going forward. Links & Resources: Our Courses & Guides

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So it's not a I don't want to communicate with you. I don't care about you. I don't give a fuck. It's I cannot have this conversation. I have definitely experienced that myself like I've had moments of much more intense stonewalling where like I'm so

0:17.0

overwhelmed by emotion or triggered by something that like everything in me wants to respond but I'm so shut down.

0:23.4

I just can't.

0:24.4

Hello and welcome to the pillow talks

0:30.5

Hello and

0:35.0

I'm just a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience

0:39.0

and I'm just a regular dude.

0:41.0

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques

0:45.2

for improving yours.

0:47.0

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship

0:52.4

advice, hilarious and honest stories of what

0:55.4

really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex

1:00.1

education you wish you'd had.

1:04.0

Today we are talking about the four horsemen

1:08.0

of the apocalypse.

1:10.1

Why did you just wee in front of that? I was about I was it what I was a I was about to ask if we could redo that

1:20.0

You think it's funny now? This is like a really serious topic.

1:25.0

You're like, wee.

1:27.0

So my plan was for you to go,

1:30.0

the four horse men,

1:32.0

and then I was gonna go noo

1:35.0

That's still bad. It's such a serious topic. I know but then I was so I was like I thought I saw you pausing and so then I was like oh I'm just gonna drop the

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