Episode 155: Redefining the Swinging Lifestyle
We Gotta Thing - Exploring Non-Monogamy
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🗓️ 18 May 2026
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
In this episode we are reframing the traditional concept of "swinging" by moving away from labels that feel intimidating or misleading and instead embracing the broader concept of ethical non-monogamy. While the term "swinger" often implies casual sex with others and the word "lifestyle" is vague and overused, ethical non-monogamy better captures what you actually explore: intentional relationships with open boundaries that prioritize your primary partnership while allowing varying levels of intimacy with others.
This shift reflects how modern relationships are evolving and becoming more open and mainstream. By reframing the conversation, this episode aims to make the space more welcoming, less stigmatized, and easier for people to explore, helping you expand your boundaries and realize you're not alone. Ultimately, the message is that this approach creates room for people to discover and define their own version of connection—"their thing."
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Do you ever feel like society is dictating the rules of your relationship? |
| 0:19.9 | Why do we feel like wanting more for our relationship is wrong? |
| 0:23.7 | If these questions sound familiar, you're not alone. |
| 0:26.9 | This podcast contains explicit language and is intended for mature audiences. |
| 0:31.9 | We are a long-time married couple sharing our personal, but not professional, |
| 0:36.1 | adventures as we navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy. |
| 0:39.9 | Care to join us? |
| 0:41.4 | Me and Mr. Jones, we got a thing. Yeah, we're both down. We like to party with the crowd that flips their |
| 0:47.5 | pineapples around. Sexy playtime phone with others apart. The ship so tight sharing our |
| 0:53.0 | desires freely as we play into the night. |
| 0:55.6 | We got a thing. |
| 0:56.6 | Me and Mr. Jones, we got a thing going on. |
| 1:00.2 | We got a thing. |
| 1:02.2 | We got a thing. |
| 1:04.0 | This ain't a flame. |
| 1:05.7 | Me and Mr. Jones, yeah. |
| 1:09.7 | We got a thing. |
| 1:10.7 | Hello, everyone. I'm Mr. Jones. |
| 1:14.4 | And I'm Mrs. Jones, and we want to welcome you to episode 155 of The We Got a Thing podcast. |
| 1:21.1 | 155 episodes is long enough to redefine the swinging lifestyle. |
| 1:26.2 | Yes, doing a little paradigm shift. Yes, we are. |
| 1:30.5 | We'll get into that in a minute, but you may have noticed something different. There's a lot |
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