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Plenty with Kate Northrup

Episode 154: Why Technology Isn't As Bad for Your Kids As You Think with Jordan Shapiro

Plenty with Kate Northrup

Kate Northrup

Personalfinance, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship, Nervoussystemhealing, Education, Womensempowerment, Wellness, Pleasure, Metaphysics, Spirituality, Abundance, Embodiment, Productivity, Timemanagement, Business

4.8697 Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2019

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Until quite recently I was firmly in the camp of: Any amount of screen time my kids have is not optimal. I’m not a purist when it comes to parenting, and Penelope can watch a show on the weekends and on the days of the week that she’s home. Even with that small amount, I’ve found myself feeling guilty and like maybe we should be a no-screens-at-any-time house. Until I was introduced to the book The New Childhood: Raising Kids to Thrive in a Connected World by Jordan Shapiro. I’ll be honest: I started listening to it with my eyebrows raised, ready to disagree with his ideas that our fear and distrust of technology for our kids is misdirected and, at times, ridiculous. And then, as he presented his well researched, well thought-out ideas about kids and technology and the fact that we need to raise them to interact with technology in healthy ways, not feel guilty any time they use it, I began to soften. I could feel my body relax, and I breathed a sigh of relief because it all made so much sense. We brought Jordan on The Kate & Mike Show to talk about kids and technology because there are so many myths that I personally was buying into, which was causing me unnecessary stress as a parent. And I know that I’m not the only one. If you think all screen time for your kids is bad, you’re terrified of them being on social media, or you’re simply looking for some guidance as to how to navigate the increasingly connected world we live in, you’re going to find this episode so helpful. Here’s what you’ll learn: • Why getting your kids on the internet as early as possible is actually the best way to go • How to prevent your kids from becoming screen-glued zombies who don’t respond to your calls for dinner • Why "closed social media" is important for your kids to get in on early and how to facilitate it • The reason people say disrespectful, awful things to each other online and how to ensure our kids don’t do that or fall prey to it • How to teach our kids to navigate a connected world so that they’re thriving, contributing, happy citizens After you listen, we’d love to hear from you. What was surprising? What did you learn that proved something you’d previously believed wrong? How are you taking action on what you learned? You can get your own copy of Do Less and still receive incredible bonuses at http://katenorthrup.com/book! Kate wants to hear from you, and you can post about your #DoLess experiences on Instagram, DM her (@katenorthrup) or email [email protected]. Would you, or a company you know, be a good fit to sponsor The Kate & Mike Show? If so, let’s talk! You can email [email protected] regarding current sponsorship opportunities. Show notes and links for this episode can be found at http://www.katenorthrup.com/podcast.

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Kate Northrop.

0:03.7

And I'm Mike Watts.

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And we're partners in life, love, and business.

0:07.7

Welcome to the Kate and Mike show, where we share insights and interviews on entrepreneurship, relationships, parenting, self-actualization, and making a life not just a living.

0:21.5

Welcome back to the Kate and Mike show.

0:23.3

This is Mike.

0:24.1

And this is Kate.

0:25.4

Today we have an interview that changed my mind on a topic that's on a lot of our minds,

0:32.1

which is technology, specifically screen time and technology and social media for kids.

0:38.6

Before I read Jordan's book, The New Childhood, Raising Kids to Thrive in a Connected World,

0:45.8

I was very much on team, delay technology as long as possible, delay social media for our kids as long as possible.

0:55.2

You know, basically it's bad. And this book changed my mind and this conversation changed my mind even more.

1:03.5

So I think you're going to love here, if you have, if you are somebody who has any guilt

1:10.7

about the amount your kids are on screens, if you have if you are somebody who has any guilt about the amount your kids are on screens

1:12.8

if you have confusion about it if you don't know exactly how to navigate the world of screens

1:18.4

and technology and social media with your kids or in schools if you're a teacher or a caregiver

1:24.5

of any kind this is an incredibly important conversation to be having because

1:28.5

our assumptions are not necessarily true. And Jordan questions a lot of them and backs it up with

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research. So why so the audience can hear, which we hear talk more about the interview, but like

1:39.2

what changed your mind? Well, I don't want to give that away because I feel like that's the

1:43.9

point of this interview.

1:45.2

Oh, okay.

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