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Welcome to Gender Reveal, a podcast where we hopefully get a little bit closer to understanding

what the hell gender is.

I'm your host and resident gender detective, TechWoodstock.

Hey everyone, hope you're all hanging in there.

This week on the show, I am very excited to share my conversation with Katie Barnes.

Katie is a reporter at ESPN and the author of Their Play, How Sports Shape the Gender

Debates, which comes out next month.

In this chat, Katie and I talk about who is behind all of these anti-trans sports bands,

how much we should be focusing on like the sawions when talking about trans issues in sports,

and why even the most well-intentioned conversations about this issue end up hurting trans kids

and other trans athletes.

Just by wanting to have a good faith conversation about eligibility criteria for elite sport,

like there is damage in doing that, because of the ways that we know policy trickles

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