There's so many different ways that you could want something.

I think romance is another one of these real blanket or umbrella terms

that unfortunately end up being not like less helpful than they are helpful

because they're so broad they could mean so many different things

and that's why we got to start figuring out what exactly we are looking for. Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your host Vanessa

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Like it or not, Valentine's Day is coming up, and there is something on all of our minds.

What is it? Candy? No.

No. I don't know. I don't know.

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