Episode 138: Describing the Lifestyle- Respectful, Pervy, Cool-Ass People
We Gotta Thing - Exploring Non-Monogamy
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4.7 • 737 Ratings
🗓️ 14 August 2025
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
When we hear the word 'swinger' or 'lifestyle' the first time we may think of key parties, sleezy sex clubs, orgies with strangers and lots of perverted people who will have sex with anyone. With how non-monogamy is portrayed in some movies and television shows it's not surprising that many of us have this perception!
During our most recent trip to Desire Riviera Maya we asked the couples to tell us how they would describe the world of non-monogamy to others and how that description has changed from their pre-lifestyle perceptions.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast contains explicit language and content and is for mature audiences only. |
| 0:06.0 | Hey, you teenagers out there, if you're under 18, this show is more for your parents. |
| 0:11.0 | So now that you have that mental picture stuck in your head, put some music on and get back to doing your homework. |
| 0:17.0 | We are a long-time married couple who's decided to chronicle our personal adventures |
| 0:21.6 | and share our sex-positive discussions as we navigate our way through the swinging lifestyle. |
| 0:27.1 | Care to join us? Hello, everyone. I'm Mr. Jones. And I'm Mrs. Jones, and we want to welcome me to episode |
| 0:50.5 | 138 of the We Got a Thing podcast. |
| 0:55.4 | Describing the lifestyle. |
| 0:59.1 | And you said you stole this from somebody, right? |
| 1:00.2 | Yeah, I have to admit. |
| 1:04.8 | One of our community members came up with this phrase, and I think it fits perfectly. |
| 1:10.3 | He said, y'all are a bunch of respectful, pervy, cool-ass people. |
| 1:12.0 | That about sums it up. |
| 1:16.1 | Yeah, except I said it, I sounded a lot more white when I said it. |
| 1:18.3 | He made it sound cooler than that. |
| 1:26.4 | Yeah, so there's, recently we went to Desire Pearl and, oh, excuse me, Desire of Maya. |
| 1:27.1 | I know. |
| 1:28.5 | Get with the program, honey. |
| 1:29.2 | In June. |
| 1:37.8 | And we recorded there with some of our friends, and we asked them what, how they were to describe, |
| 1:43.2 | if they were to describe the lifestyle to somebody who asked, how would they describe it now? |
| 1:48.4 | And how has that changed from how they would have described it before they got into it or their perception of it? |
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