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I'm actually relax. Welcome to the broad experience, the show about when in the workplace, and success. I'm Ashley Mountaint.

This time, it happens to so many women, but we rarely talk about it. You're pregnant, you're excited,

then it all goes wrong. It is one of those things that from the outside, just for practical reasons,

you have to keep it secret, but then you also can't be, like, grieving or emotionally affected.

And even if you confide in your boss about what's happened.

I remember Googling what to say when you experienced a miscarriage at work, and it was all,

the advice was all about what do you tell your manager. I found absolutely

no advice anywhere on what to do about people you actually manage. And when a colleague suffers a

pregnancy loss or the loss of a baby, how can the rest of us do the right thing? That's certainly

one of the concerns that I've had other women share with me is that one of the

most painful things for them in their work environment is even when there's support there at the

beginning, people say, well, you know, it's been three weeks. Like now it's time to get back on

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