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This is the Your Kickass Life podcast with Andrea Owen.

A no BS guide to self-help and badassery.

Because ladies, let's face it, life's too short for it to not kick ass.

And here's your host, the girl who serves it up straight with a side of crazy.

Andrea Owen.

Hey, Ask Kickers. How are you? This is an impromptu short podcast episode. I was thinking about

all of you because, well, here's what happened. I was looking for some paperwork. I have

this really old kind of like accordion file thing that I've had for,

gosh, at least a decade now. And I was looking for something in it. And I came across this one

particular file that I have kept forever. And I'm not particularly a sentimental person. I don't

keep a lot of momentos or things like that, but I happen to keep a bunch

of papers, like random things that I had kept during the year that I, that my whole life kind of

fell apart. If you've been following me for any length of time listening to the podcast and especially my blog, I have written about it extensively. So I'll give you a quick story

if you don't know it at all. So in 2006, my ex-husband, now ex-husband, had an affair

with our neighbor and got her pregnant. We had been together for a very long time at that point.

He got her pregnant right as we were talking about conceiving our first child. It was an awful

divorce. It was horrible. I immediately got into a new relationship that was terrible. So what ended up

happening is when I came out of, well, no, I should back up, during the

whole time that I was with the boyfriend after I was going through my divorce, and when that

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