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Pillow Talks

Episode 124: Is Your Sex Life Too Boring?

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Did you know that 86% of people worry that their sex life is too boring?

It’s so easy to get caught up in anxiety about your sex life. You can’t help but wonder if everyone else is doing it more often than you are, or if they’re enjoying it more. And let’s be honest - it’s hard to get excited about doing the same thing, in the same place, at the same time, every time…

In today’s episode, we’re sharing 5 secrets to shift sex with your partner from ho-hum to mind-blowing! Get ready for some simple but powerful changes you can implement tonight.

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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode124

Transcript

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0:00.0

you're feeling disconnected from each other,

0:02.2

you're feeling like strangers, maybe like roommates,

0:04.8

rather than romantic partners, ships passing in the night.

0:08.2

Maybe you're feeling resentful of each other.

0:10.9

Maybe you've been arguing a lot.

0:12.7

Like, you're not going to want to have sex with each other

0:16.2

in those sorts of situations.

0:17.8

Nope.

0:18.6

We need to have this baseline level

0:20.7

of emotional connection in order to make

0:24.1

being physically intimate with each other

0:26.0

not feel like a such a leap.

0:28.3

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:37.5

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:38.9

And Zander Marin.

0:40.2

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:43.2

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:44.8

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

0:47.0

while giving you step-by-step techniques

0:49.0

for improving yours.

0:50.4

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double-date

0:52.8

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship

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