So the reason that we find it happening more with men

than with women is because women are socialized

to be more expressive with their emotions,

to be able to communicate about their emotions more readily,

and men are given so much societal conditioning

that like, real men don't cry,

real men don't feel feelings, like don't be a pussy,

like, you know, you're supposed to hold everything inside.

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