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Pillow Talks

Episode 106: Exposing Our Biggest Relationship Frustrations With Enneagram Expert Tracy O’Malley

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2023

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

In over 100 episodes of Pillow Talks, we’ve never had a guest. But we broke the mold to bring on Tracy O’Malley, and after hearing this episode, we think you’ll understand why.

Tracy is a phenomenal Enneagram expert who helps you understand how your personality type affects how you show up in life and love. We thought it would be fun to do a couples session with Tracy, and we gave her full permission to share our strengths and challenges with you. We were absolutely blown away - like jaws on the floor - by how accurately she described our relationship. She explained how our Enneagram types (5 and 7) work in a relationship, the ways we’re accidentally driving each other nuts, and how we can show each other more grace. And she even provided tons of guidance for how people of any type can use the Enneagram to improve their relationships. (Just wait until you hear her tip about our younger selves...)

Whether you’re an Enneagram newbie or pro, or if you just want an intimate peek into the inner workings of our relationship, this episode is a must-listen!

Click here and use code PILLOW to access Tracy O’Malley’s Enneagram Type Blueprint for 5% off!

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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode106

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0:00.0

Yeah, this is a great example because it's like yeah, from my perspective, it feels like things don't

0:05.5

rattle you. So this is, you know, just an example of how powerful having this kind of information

0:09.8

and knowledge can be for me to realize he is being rattle. He is being affected. He's just showing

0:15.2

it in a different way than I would.

0:22.4

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. Where are your hosts, Vanessa?

0:27.2

And Zander Marin. I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:31.4

And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you

0:36.0

step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date

0:41.1

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what

0:47.5

really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:54.1

Thanks to Dipsy for supporting Pillotox. Dipsy is an audio app full of short, sexy stories. You can

1:03.2

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sign up for free and book a top rated doctor. We have a very special episode for you today.

1:36.7

Oh, you don't even know what's about to hit you. I mean, they probably do because I've seen the

1:40.8

title of the podcast episode. But they haven't heard it. And we have because we are recording this

1:47.9

after the interview. So we are coming to you from the future. Wait, you didn't even say you

1:52.5

just jumped into the interview. So this is a very unusual episode for a number of different reasons.

1:57.0

Number one, it's our first ever interview. We have an expert that we're super excited to share

2:03.6

with you. And to be totally transparent with you, we are not planning on having like this isn't

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