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Pillow Talks

Episode 105: “Is This Normal?” 2.0 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.82.6K Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2023

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Get ready for the highly anticipated sequel to one of our most popular episodes yet! Back in Episode 91 we asked the age-old question, “Is This Normal?” We're back to deliver another round of jaw-dropping, mind-boggling, and side-splitting revelations in our second installment.   You’ll get answers to questions like: Is it normal to resent my husband after having a baby? Is it normal that I started masturbating at age five? Is it normal for a man to need assistance to get hard? Is it normal being bored AF with partnered sex? And so much more!   Prepare to laugh, cringe, and nod your head in recognition as we address your questions head-on!   Links & Resources: Guide:  Next Level Intercourse (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/next-level-intercourse/)  Guide:  Rediscovering Desire (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/rediscovering-desire/)  Guide:  Mental Load Workbook (https://vmtherapy.thrivecart.com/mental-load-workbook/)  Guide:  Ultimate Foreplay Guides (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/)  Our Book: Sex Talks (https://sextalksbook.com/)    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://CozyEarth.com) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS Thanks StoryWorth. Get $10 off your first purchase at StoryWorth.com/PILLOW (http://StoryWorth.com/PILLOW).   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode105 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

We were not good at it either.

0:01.7

Yeah, and I mean, like Vanessa was studying

0:04.5

to become a sex therapist at this time.

0:07.0

It's not like, oh, you, it's not like, you know,

0:09.4

you dedicate your life to this career path

0:11.6

and all the sudden you're just perfect at it.

0:14.5

She wasn't perfect, I wasn't perfect.

0:16.6

We're still not perfect.

0:18.2

But we try because we've seen the impact

0:21.1

that it makes on our relationship.

0:23.2

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:32.2

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:33.6

And Zander Marin.

0:34.9

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:37.8

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:39.5

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

0:41.7

while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:45.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date

0:47.6

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,

0:51.6

hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on

0:54.8

behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:57.9

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

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