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Pillow Talks

Episode 105: “Is This Normal?” 2.0 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2023

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Get ready for the highly anticipated sequel to one of our most popular episodes yet! Back in Episode 91 we asked the age-old question, “Is This Normal?” We're back to deliver another round of jaw-dropping, mind-boggling, and side-splitting revelations in our second installment.

You’ll get answers to questions like:

  • Is it normal to resent my husband after having a baby?
  • Is it normal that I started masturbating at age five?
  • Is it normal for a man to need assistance to get hard?
  • Is it normal being bored AF with partnered sex?

And so much more!

Prepare to laugh, cringe, and nod your head in recognition as we address your questions head-on!

Links & Resources:

Guide: Next Level Intercourse

Guide: Rediscovering Desire

Guide: Mental Load Workbook

Guide: Ultimate Foreplay Guides

Our Book: Sex Talks

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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode105

Transcript

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0:00.0

We were not good at it either.

0:01.7

Yeah, and I mean, like Vanessa was studying

0:04.5

to become a sex therapist at this time.

0:07.0

It's not like, oh, you, it's not like, you know,

0:09.4

you dedicate your life to this career path

0:11.6

and all the sudden you're just perfect at it.

0:14.5

She wasn't perfect, I wasn't perfect.

0:16.6

We're still not perfect.

0:18.2

But we try because we've seen the impact

0:21.1

that it makes on our relationship.

0:23.2

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:32.2

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:33.6

And Zander Marin.

0:34.9

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:37.8

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:39.5

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

0:41.7

while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:45.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date

0:47.6

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,

0:51.6

hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on

0:54.8

behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:57.9

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

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