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Welcome to gender reveal, a podcast where we hopefully get a little bit closer to understanding what the hell gender is.

I'm your host and resident gender detective, Tuckwood Stock.

Hey everyone, hope you're all hanging in there. This week on the show, it is a joy and a privilege to share my conversation with Jackie S, who you hopefully already know as the author of Daryl.

In Daryl, Jackie writes from the perspective of a cis question mark white guy, and in this interview, we talk about why she chose to do that as someone who is neither cis nor white.

For me, the irony there is I'm like, this is the way that I think that people wanted me to write about my own identity.

And I'm like, no, no, no, but I'll give you the voice.

We also talk about maintaining privacy as an author, doing bits, and also Jonathan, Franzen, and Jack Harlow for some reason.

And of course, I want to be the industry baby.

But before we get to that, I just wanted to let you know that we did put a ton of stuff in the merch store for this month only.

We've got a very powerful new design that says gender is a shitty group project.

We've got three beautiful new floral stickers in various pride flag colors.

And we've got two new designs from our cartoonist friend Will, who you might know as a trans boy comics on Instagram.

Plus for rerunning some of our biggest hits, including our surf don't turf tanks and hoodies and our famous trains flag mug.

This is all available through November 30th only at bit.ly slash gender merch.

Again, that is through the end of November only don't ask for it later at bit.ly slash gender merch.

And as always, 100% of proceeds go to trans people and trans organizations.

And now it's time for this week in gender.

You may remember that in last week's episode, Brittany Dela Crata and I talked briefly about the experience of trans and non binary athletes in the 2020 Olympics.

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