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The Broad Experience

Episode 102: When Women Work For Free (re-release)

The Broad Experience

The Broad Experience

Careers, Society & Culture, Business

5.0592 Ratings

🗓️ 22 March 2017

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Women have a problem valuing themselves, both setting prices and believing they're truly worth something in the marketplace. A lot of us charge too little for our work. Sometimes we don't charge at all. It's a complicated, multi-layered issue, and part of the reason women earn less than men. As someone who squirms whenever I have to talk about how much I'm worth, I knew I had to tackle the topic on the podcast. Guests are Adrienne Graham and Kathy Caprino.

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0:00.0

Welcome to The Broad Experience, the show about women, the workplace and success. I'm Ashley Milmtight.

0:14.4

This week's show is an episode I first put out in 2014. It's as relevant today as it was then. It has to do with women's worth in the marketplace

0:23.9

and our tendency to undervalue ourselves. Now, I will say that since I made the episode,

0:30.5

I have got a lot better at putting a value on my time and expertise, in large part because

0:36.2

of what I learned talking to these guests and

0:38.4

other guests I've had in shows since then. And I'll give you a quick update at the end that may

0:44.0

be helpful for anyone starting out in a new freelance career. Just because you lack experience

0:49.7

doesn't mean you have to under charge. So stay tuned for that.

1:07.1

This time on the show, why do so many women have a hard time putting a value on their work?

1:11.5

If you don't believe in yourself, if you don't believe that you're worth what you're charging, other people won't, they'll smell that fear and they'll try to haggle you down.

1:17.5

And how do you respond to those requests to pick your brain over coffee?

1:21.9

If it's really people wanting to pick your brain and they're not coming to the table with

1:26.6

anything, they're not offering to barter, they're not thinking to the table with anything. They're not offering to

1:27.9

barter. They're not thinking of paying. There's ways to respond to that. Coming up when women

1:33.9

work for free. Earlier this year, I was on Forbes.com one day, and I came across a post that really got me thinking.

1:50.7

It was called, no, you can't pick my brain. It cost too much. It was by an Atlanta businesswoman called Adrian Graham, and it basically said, I run my own business and I have been overrun by people who want to talk on the phone or meet for coffee so they can pick my brain.

2:06.3

Essentially, they want me to give them advice for free. Here's why I say no, and here are some tips for you to set boundaries.

2:13.1

The reason that article made me think so much is that I recognise my own tendency to want to help people

2:18.4

and my own tendency to totally undervalue my work and give away time for nothing.

2:23.8

And when you're freelance like I am, time really is money.

2:28.0

And I've had more of these kinds of queries lately.

2:30.7

People, sometimes individual, sometimes companies who want to ask my advice about women in the

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