Hello and welcome to Let's Talk About It. I'm your host Taylor and today I'm joined by my lovely

girlfriend Vanessa Grimaldi. Welcome to the show. That's a great intro because people actually do

think I'm your girlfriend. Not just a girl that's your friend like your lover. Yes, this is true.

You have been on this show several times before and for anyone that is just listening that

doesn't know our relationship. Yeah, we met on Nick's Season of the Bachelor and then basically found

true love and one another in our friendship. But everyone thinks we're actually dating.

I feel like I am. I don't know who said this. Oh yeah, because Josh was on my podcast the last

episode. Josh was on help. I suck at dating and someone had messaged me like, well, if you're dating

Josh, then like how's your basically saying how my friendship with you is kind of like a relationship

and maybe like, you know, that's unhealthy. I'm like, no, it is super healthy to have a friend

that you could lean on and can be your cheerleader. I was reading Oprah's book called What I Know

For Sure. I think that's what the title is called and there's a page that remind me of you.

And it basically said she's talking about Gail and she said Gail is my right hand woman

and she is someone that will pick me up when I'm breaking into pieces and will be the one to cheer

me on whenever I'm doing great. And I feel like that's you. You're my Gail or you want, you could be

O for I'll be Gail. You be O for I'll be Gail. I'm going with that. That's so sweet.

Yeah, I think it's all out when I know for sure. Well, you're very insightful like Oprah is.

Well, thank you. I try and yeah, I would say like you're the same to me like I would read that

and I would think of you too. But it is interesting. I think when people try to navigate,

maintaining their really close relationships when they get into a new romantic relationship,

which can definitely be something we we discuss in today's episode. So you're on today to kind of

discuss a few different things that we'll get into this episode. One of them kind of being

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