This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. My doctor exposed me for having an affair to my wife. This has to be a violation. You know, what if you like getting violated? Ooh, what's that your kink? What if that's your kink, baby, kinky kink? Not my HIPAA records. I would say I'm predicting a whole.

A hole from O.P.

From O.P. For doctor. Oh. Nah, no. Let's go out. Doctors just locked. Doctors letting his shoe. I like it. All right. This is sort of a sensitive topic, but I still could use some legal advice. My wife and I have been married for 20 years with kids and all the normal trappings

of suburban married life. For the last years, my wife and I have an explicitly defined

open marriage. We have both had a series of outside partners and we have both stayed within those

rules. In the last several years, I have gone outside of the bounds of her open marriage and started

dating men.

And for the last three years, I have been monogamously seeing one specific man, who including

my wife is my only sexual partner.

My male partner, however, is not monogamous, and so protection is always on my mind.

In general, I keep my personal business completely separate from my family business. I travel

frequently and have a private office that supports my career, and so bills, documents, etc. are

routinely sent to my office where I have privacy and control of them. We, the family and I,

have a small practice concierge doctor who we pay an extraordinary amount

atop of the normal insurance bill amounts and all that.

As a result, this doctor is a little bit chummy with my wife and older kids.

I have always been transparent with the doctor about my health concerns, needs, treatment goals, etc.

She was not aware of either of our open marriages. Oh dear. Or the fact that I'm doing it with

dudes. She has never complained about ordering an SDD panel or anything else that is typical

of a monogamous married couple.

But I presumed that that was because my wife was also having the test done, and so she would

use her brain to introduce that we were having other sexual partners.

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