EP52: Not Sure If This Is an Ebb or a Flow, But We're Here for It
So What Now? with Carla and Dex
Idea to Launch Productions
4.8 • 592 Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2025
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
In this week's episode of So What Now?, we dive into parenting highs, lows, and the unexpected in-betweens. Dex kicks things off by sharing her experience at a frat party with Mikaela – the drinks, the vibes, the "what am I doing here?" moments. Meanwhile, Carla continues her fight with the public school system to get the proper support Psalm needs — it's real, it's frustrating, and she doesn't hold back.
The convo then takes a sharp (and fuzzy?) turn to Kim Kardashian's latest business move: faux-fur thong panties. Yes, you read that right. They're sold out, and we're asking: What is going on out here?! Wild or genius? Maybe both.
We also unpack Kim's recent interview on the Call Her Daddy podcast, where she gets vulnerable about co-parenting with Kanye and reflects on choosing a partner who didn't live up to the legacy her own father left. This hit Carla hard, she opens up about the deep guilt she's carrying around the choices she made in her own relationships — especially when it comes to her kids' fathers. It's raw, real, and a reminder that healing isn't linear.
The episode closes with a reflective but practical list: 13 decisions to make by 45 so you don't have regrets at 70. From finances to friendships to finally putting yourself first, we break them down and share where we're at on the list.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all. |
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| 0:12.7 | Well, you know that I have idea to launch productions. |
| 0:14.5 | We've launched over 900 shows to date. |
| 0:16.3 | And one of my favorite things to help people with is figure out the name of their podcast. It has to be something catchy. It has to where you should be able to grow with it. So I created this free guide. It's a 20 chat GPT prompts to name your podcast. Now, this is whether you're launching for the first time, rebranding, or you want a stronger name that's going to resonate with your audience. Like, so what now? That |
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| 0:55.4 | happen next, but yeah, so what now. Yeah. We're back. We're back. We're back. What's up? |
| 1:02.3 | Y'all. Welcome back to another episode of the So What Now podcast with your host, Carla in Debt. |
| 1:08.0 | Yes, that's us. So we're still in the month of October. |
| 1:11.3 | A couple days. |
| 1:13.7 | The weather has been amazing here. |
| 1:25.7 | I've been outside. Mosquitoes are wilding, though. You know, I think my blood type is not, they don't like my blood type. I don't get bit either, but the girls do. So I wanted to go One of the first evenings |
| 1:26.7 | That was really good |
| 1:27.4 | I'm just go outside |
| 1:28.1 | I cleaned up |
| 1:28.8 | I said I'm at this go outside |
| 1:29.7 | I hang out |
| 1:30.2 | And they were not the girls do. So I wanted to go one of the first evenings that was really good, I'm |
| 1:27.5 | how to go outside, I cleaned up, I said, I'm like, let's go outside, I hang out, and they were |
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